Sophomore girl dating a senior boy

And hey, maybe he’s even smart and organized enough for you to make him your “study buddy.” Study dates are pretty much the best dates most college girls can hope for within the first month or so of school (news flash: college guys are usually cheap).It’s not fair to the guy if you’re just not that into him, but you keep him around because he’s, like, obsessed with you.When tempted to engage in “dormcest,” remind yourself that you’re going to have to face him—as well as everyone else on your floor, because they’re going to find out—for the rest of the year, no matter how good or bad your hook-up was.Just because he’s sitting alone and doesn’t speak to anyone in the class doesn’t mean he’s a total lunatic.If you’re interested, all it takes is a slow pack-up-and-hang-back after class to initiate conversation.

Hooking up with one or two of your hallmates within the first few days of school, however, is a definite no-no.The puppy dog thing will get old after a while, leaving him feeling stupid/angry and you feeling unfulfilled, annoyed and guilty – not to mention that other guys you might actually become interested in will get the wrong idea.They’re part of the college lifestyle, and you can choose if you want to engage in them or not (certainly, you can avoid making out with the guy you’ve been dancing with all night if you’re just not that into it).No, we can’t be certain that what all guys are looking for is sex, but that’s definitely a part of college hook-ups.He might want it and he might even ask for it, but if you’re uncomfortable, it’s not up to you to give it to him.

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