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with two things on my mind: taking advantage of a promising career opportunity and finding a woman to spend my life with.My first year in the nation’s capital city was difficult; both job and dating scene didn’t click for me.I came into situations barely understanding my own intentions, much less anyone else’s.As I charged in, my selfish bias gave me selective vision. As it turns out, people are complex, driven by many different factors.Several failed, awkward, sort-of relationships revealed areas in my life where I was lacking maturity.I remember tagging along with a girl on a road trip to return her car to the family ranch.
Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. Knowing the One in whom we believe, we can confidently engage in relationships and see where possibilities go. Sure, I held to a biblical view of sexuality and desired to be married. I needed to rewire thought patterns that would objectify rather than honor.
I even exchanged sharp words with the woman’s mother.
Ignoring clues of mismatched interests led to my poor decisions.
Seeking insight from Scripture, I came upon a verse from an Old Testament story that seemed to resonate: “My servant Caleb, because he has a different spirit and has followed me fully, I will bring into the land.” (Numbers ) The context may seem odd in relation to dating, but hear me out.
Caleb was one of 12 spies Moses sent to survey the Promised Land.